See why he will never marry you

Look at yourself and whoever it is you are in a relationship with right now. Do you think you both have a future together? You need to stop feigning ignorance and look deeply at the possibilities before you end up committing your whole life to him.

Here are 3 reasons why he will never marry you and you will only get close to being a baby mama.

You have no ambition

Yes. He has been taking you out on dates and his family already knows you but if you do not have a career you are chasing or a stable source of income, your relationship will end in tears. No man wants to keep up with a woman who has no plans for their future. The highest he will do is pump the baby into you and dump you at the end. If you don’t get something doing and stop being over-dependent, he will ‘chop and clean mouth’ and still invite you to his wedding. Use your brain sis.

You agree with him all the time

Honestly, not all men like women who say ‘Yes’ to him whenever he takes a decision or drops an argument. One thing most women don’t know is that men respect women who have logical objections to arguments they bring to the table. You should be able to give your opinion on salient issues. No. we are not asking you to have the knowledge of everything but; When he says ‘the bridge is collapsing because of the high influx of road users’, you are expected to reason and give your own argument in a sensible way. ‘Maybe the bridge is collapsing because the government does not maintain it; zero-maintenance will weaken the road surely.’ By doing this, he becomes confident that when he does not have a balanced thought, or is in the middle of making decisions, you are his first option to call. Who wants to have a baby with someone who does not add value?

You have the ‘I will change’ syndrome.

No. Nobody is perfect. We are not asking you to be perfect but if you continue to show bad attitude and say ‘I will change’ at the end of every argument, you will end up in your parents’ house till you’re 40. You have traits that are unacceptable, but because he has promised to live with your flaws, you continue to act like that. As much as he tries to overlook the red flags, if you choke him with your ’Nobody is perfect’ syndrome, he will dump you.

Please tell me why I might be wrong in the comment section…